I like ducks. There are too many bobble-head dolls in the world; I figure the maximum number should be around twenty-three. There is no governor anywhere. Fnord. Napalm jokes are not as amusing as some people think they are. Never eat anything bigger than your head. Remain calm. Kinky Friedman is a very funny fella. Good music can be painful. Watch your head.

Monday, August 08, 2005

You Are In The South - Willowdale Cemetery

I took a trip to Goldsboro, NC, to visit the Willowdale Cemetery, which is located right next to the downtown area. Willowdale cemetery is somewhat famous - it is the home of a mass gravesite for some 800 Confederate soldiers, some 200 of which remain unidentified. It is also built on the edge of an abandoned factory-looking thing.



At first, it doesn't seem any different from any other cemetery. There are the usual signs of subtle humor:



This poor fellow should have seen this coming and stayed out of the lake...



Two wives, no husband. Wonder where he absconded to? And do his two wives enjoy being buried next to each other sans hubby?

But then, you see something that reminds you that you're in the South. And it is not really very funny.



Seeing as how the Goldsboro Rifles were instrumental in setting up this cemetery as a mass grave, complete with massive monument to Confederate Soldiers, I must presume that this was a (ahem) white (ahem) cemetery. Given that, this must have been a signal honor. But I have no idea how to feel about it now. I'm confused as to what it all means now. Dead is dead. Are the passions, hatreds, and prejudices of long ago dead as well?



These two monuments are within twenty yards of each other, by the way.



Then you look up smack dab at the far edge of the cemetery, right up next to the abandoned factory I mentioned earlier, and there - the 'Jewish' sector of the cemetery. Yes, we're in the South.







Anyway, my cemetery photos. No disrespect intended. I like visiting cemeteries, and I am always highly respectful of the last resting place of these souls. I just spend a lot of time thinking in them, is all. And I've never seen some of the things I've seen since moving to the South. Makes you think.

On and On,

Wiggy

9 Comments:

Blogger V said...

Fascinating as usual. The black and white makes it even more so.

Mon Aug 08, 11:33:00 PM EDT

 
Blogger Dave Morris said...

Notice the two wives were barely in their 30's? Hmmm...

Tue Aug 09, 12:24:00 PM EDT

 
Blogger Rob Seifert said...

I'm sure you recall that we have lot's of old cemetaries around Colorado what with all the mining towns etc... The thing that gets me is all the kids graves. Sad stuff.

Tue Aug 09, 01:04:00 PM EDT

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

We need to take a trip to New Bern. There's an old cemetary there you'd really like to see, in addition to lots of other neat stuff to photograph.

Also next time we're in Raleigh together, we should check out Oakwood Cemetary, which is downtown. It dates back to the Civil War, at least, and has several notable figured buried in it. It also has the future resting place of Jesse Helms!

Tue Aug 09, 10:19:00 PM EDT

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sir,
You were definately in the "South"
You,Sir were on hallowed ground!
A place where many great Southern
people's last rites were spoken.
You have made fun of traditions
that are Southern and have dis-
graced this ground with ignorant
comments! You must be a yankee,
please return to the cess pool
from where you crawled out from
under a rotten log!! Your ignor-
ance of cemeteries is obvious!
You need to learn to respect the
dead for thats as close as you
will ever get to respectable
desent people!

DEO VINDICE,
Dan Boyette
Commander
Goldsboro Rifles

Wed Dec 28, 06:29:00 PM EST

 
Blogger Unknown said...

Hey, Dan.

Sorry to have bothered you with my little blog. I *am* in the South, as I live just up the road in Wilson, and I'm in Goldsboro all the time on various photographic expeditions.

And yes, I suppose you could say I am a "Yankee," but I'm from the West, not the North. Albuquerque, New Mexico is just as far south as Goldsboro.

What Southern traditions have I made fun of?

Perhaps I am ignorant of cemetaries. I'm open to learning about them, and as I said in my post, I mean no disrespect to the dead.

Semper Fidelis,

Wigwam Jones

Wed Dec 28, 07:07:00 PM EST

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dan Boyette you have some head problems.
I can definitely see by dumb comments like that why the Civil War started.
Too bad you weren't in the Civil War so your body would've been in that mass burial site at the cemetery.
People like you are not decent respectable people.

Sat Jun 28, 10:22:00 PM EDT

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is the same guy who just posted.
I forgot.... great pics Wigwam Jones.
the black and white gives them an extra nice touch.

Sat Jun 28, 10:24:00 PM EDT

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is fascinating. I've lived in Ann Arbor, Michigan, for 11 years now but am from North Carolina. My siblings and I just buried our Daddy, William Edgar Warrick, Jr., in Willowdale Cemetery earlier this month. I was amazed to see how many other Warricks are buried there and took plenty of headstones shots. Had not been down to Goldsboro all that much. Daddy had not lived there for some time but got over there occassionally to eat at Wilbur's BBQ off of Highway 70.

My favoriate old cemetery is in Beautfort, NC. You can feel all the ghosts wandering around it. Very cool!

P.S. to Nathan Adams, are you of the Roseboro-area (Clinton), NC Adams clan? Daddy, a Warrick, married Mama, an Adams. She had a brother named Nathan.

Sun Nov 30, 12:37:00 PM EST

 

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